If you’ve been wondering why most of your relationships fail, take a moment to evaluate yourself and consider the times we live in.
While not universally proven, it seems that many men in today’s generation approach women without any intention of committing to a successful relationship, especially when you’re in university or just after high school.
These men often approach multiple women without any serious intent, merely for the thrill of it, not even having any future plans . Just like they say, in a class, a teacher will give you 25% and 75% is yours as a student is the same case to men, 75% is yours as a lady .
When a man approaches you, give it two weeks to assess your feelings towards him. If you find that you love him, focus on your feelings rather than his. Teach him to love you by showering him with affection and making him feel valued. Boost his ego, and massage his ego and things will likely fall into place. People might say that you are old and that’s why you are showering with love , that’s none of your business.
If this man eventually falls in love with you, people might gossip, claiming you’ve used magic or money to win him over. Ignore these remarks. What matters is having a man who loves you.
Time flies, and we must accept that we are sexual beings. While some may say they can live without a man, in reality, you will encounter different men to satisfy your sexual needs. Thus, it’s important to have a man you can call your own, even if it means being in a polygamous marriage.
I come in peace .

By: Monicah Malith